I'm new here but you have my thoughts and prayers as well, I hate to see anyone sick or in pain :(
And not to sound cheesy but i really do believe that positive thinking can help. A few years back my mother was sick also in a similar situation and I moved in with her and was her caregiver. keep up the good fight!
Thats not cheesy at all, i firmly believe, I used to feel funny about posting personal things here, but i know how many good people are here, and i truly believe their good thoughts and prayers help.
Scott I hope Deb is doing better. I know how going to the doctors/hospitals can really svck. Hang in there & be there for each other