All I'm saying, and I agree with CFrizz, that this isn't the Elks Lodge. IMO it shows a lack of respect for other forum members. And no Cathy doesn't need to grow a thick skin.
You seem to be confusing a few issues here. I'm not advocating being a prude. I'm just saying a little respect to Cathy and other female members here isn't being unreasonable. I see her point of view.