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    heading for the big D and don't mean Dallas!!!

    Jon signing out for now!
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    Well thats just aweful john if it was something you did not ask for, sorry to hear bro

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    Dodge State Prison in Georgia???
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    Ouch, and you thought this hobby was expensive, good luck bro

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    Quote Originally Posted by nooshinjohn View Post
    Dodge State Prison in Georgia???
    Seriously John?

    Funny has 2 sides to it, especially with kids involved.

    Bummer, been there twice myself Jon.

    Best of luck, maybe you can "compromise".
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    Quote Originally Posted by pepster View Post
    Seriously John?

    Funny has 2 sides to it, especially with kids involved.

    Bummer, been there twice myself Jon.

    Best of luck, maybe you can "compromise".
    Oh crap... sorry dude. I forgot about THAT big D... been there too, and it royally sucks. My apologies for my crappy attempt at humor.
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    Been there, Done that and Lost my T-shirt. Nobody wins, life is just different. Sometimes it's just got to be. Check in from time to time and let us know how you are doing.

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    OHHHH that big D. I was thinking dentist for some reason. lol Sorry to hear that. I've been there too.
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    Never mind.
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    Been there, done that, this too shall pass. Great reason to listen to music and fugidaboutit
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    Sorry to hear about what you're going through! Hang in there and keep on jamming as much as possible.

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    Sorry for your troubles, but don't be a stranger. One of the truisms of life is time heals all wounds, or at least makes them easier to live with. Post and let us know how you're doing.

    Been there before myself - twice. Though it may be painful, you'll get through it.
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    You have to have humor when it comes to divorce especially when children are involved. Obviously humor with discretion but if your too too sensitive you can fall into depression.

    Take care of the children and move on to better days which applies to the two of you.

    Good luck and never place blame on anyone, no matter what. Take 50% responsibility for whatever and move on.

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    Been there too.Dont miss her either. Not one bit.......YOU CANT CHANGE THE PAST--BUT YOU CAN CHANGE THE FUTURE :). ive been with Carla 20 years now.... Life can have its ups n downs. Hang in there....

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    Sorry to hear that and prayers for you and your family.

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    Good Luck, Bro.
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    I was young when my parents split, messed me up pretty good for a while, think it has played a big part on how i act today. I wish the best of luck to you, your kids, and to a lesser extent her, hope all goes smoothly and ou can maybe turn this into a positive one day.
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    My mind is in a daze, sadness fills my heart. The days are so long that the minutes seem like hours.
    I live for my kids and the time away from them while at work
    ( which I try to do ) kills me !

    12, 6 and 3 ... My middle child
    Celebrates her 7th birthday in two weeks.

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    Quote Originally Posted by jon1redleg View Post
    My mind is in a daze, sadness fills my heart. The days are so long that the minutes seem like hours.
    I live for my kids and the time away from them while at work
    ( which I try to do ) kills me !

    12, 6 and 3 ... My middle child
    Celebrates her 7th birthday in two weeks.
    I was the same age as your middle girl when my parents split. I don't want to share with you how messed up things are still some 40 years later, but lets just say my dad chose a woman that hated his children's mother with every fiber of her being. I lost my father completely when that happened.

    If you thought you lived for your children before this, you will need to do so even more now. Everything you say or do will be amplified a thousand-fold in the eyes and minds of a child. I truly pray for them, for you and your family going forward.

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    Quote Originally Posted by jon1redleg View Post
    My mind is in a daze, sadness fills my heart. The days are so long that the minutes seem like hours.
    I live for my kids and the time away from them while at work
    ( which I try to do ) kills me !

    12, 6 and 3 ... My middle child
    Celebrates her 7th birthday in two weeks.
    It is tough, especially at first, been there more than once. Be sure to never down you wife to the kids, be the bigger person no matter what. I never would say anything bad about my ex of my first two children, a few years later they started asking me about my side. I just told them we married too young and both made mistakes. My son got pretty upset that I wouldn't say anything, I told him there was nothing good going to come from saying bad things about her. We later became good friends and I even had her and her husband spend a week at my house (I ended up with custody, and about 350 miles away from her). I introduced her husband to my friends as my husband in law.,,big laugh from all.

    I said that to say this, she later died, and to this day my kids say they are so grateful for all of that. We never know what the future holds, but you WILL be happy again.

    Best of luck to you, wish I could help.

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    I know you are lurking out there Jon... any updates you can share?
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    Jon, I am sorry to hear this sad news. I pray for you and your family during this time of heartache and adjustment. Hang in there!
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    Twice myself too. Can't say I'm sorry as I don't know the situation, but who knows, could be a good thing. A window closes and another opens my friend.

    I will tell you, the last time I was divorced I was 40. Dating sucks at 40, let me tell ya.

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    Hang in there buddy, you HAVE to remain positive and understand that things will get better in time. Promise.

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