I sold a parasound pre on ebay last week or so for 200 shipped. It went to cali and with shipping paypal and ebay fees, it was well over 50 bucks. Anyway, the buyer is claiming that the remote isnt working. It was working fine when i shipped it. He seems like a reasonable enough fellow, but wants a partial refund to help pay for a new remote. I offered to give him a full refund if he shipped it back to me. Does this.seem fair or am i being a douche?