Not sure that sounded cold to you or not Jamie?
I can see how it might come off like that, but will mention, I would have shared this thread with her.
She was a cool chic, ran 10 mile marathons until her mid 70's.
San Diego California, from '60-'89.
Being 90 she was still smart as a whip, and still drove daily (few blocks at a time).
If only you or I could live a life like she had.