I will state my case to the community. I will not state the name of the fellow polkie YET!
I was replying to a post and communication was engaged in the forum. I offered a piece of equpiment to "polkie" to a/b. I told him he could use said equipment for up to a month mabey longer if I did not need. I indicated to him that I would request the item back by pm.
I mailed the item to him on my dime...no big deal...He did indicate that he did receive the item and posted his a/b on the forum.
On the ninth of this month I requested the item back and he pm that he would ship on the 10th. I requested an update 3 times now and am getting no response from him. He was on yesterday and this morning at 3:00 am ish.